Bodhi was quiet for a minute, thinking. Then he said, "Mom, people are like that too. Some people are beautiful and fun but when you put them together...bleh. Owen and I are kind of like that. We don't mix well but we are both good on our own." He quietly contemplated a moment longer, before turning to me, "Mom, you just haven't found a man that mixes well with you. They might for a little while but we need someone who mixes it up like a good soup. Yea. People are like that."