Skeleton Woman..From Darkness (2002)

This is me.

Since my dad threw me into the sea. When he told me why he'd never have come to protect me from my step father's abuse.

I never had a harder fall.

I have been bouncing along the depths, rattling bones and grasping

... or running and hiding and hoping for the tenderness that might bring me back to life.

Have you read Clarissa Pinkola Estes' chapter on Skeleton woman?

She is persephone.

She is love's underbelly and necessity.

This is totally a part of my story...

And still my own bones scare the living crap out of me. Rattling and running, seeking safe harbor in my heart.

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a story recently shared by a friend

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love. Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment. When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help. Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?" Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you." Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!" "I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered. Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you." "Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself...

He is no longer here

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shame

I was recently asked why I blogged or engaged in a continual reflection on my thoughts or feelings. Wasn't I at least a little ashamed to indulge my continual, narcissistic, self reflection in a world full of genuine need, suffering and pain. This came at a time when I really had nothing left to battle with. I went belly up with shame. My old answer didn't suffice. I no longer blog for the same reason that I once did. There wasn't an adequate answer. Shame asked, "who do you think you are to put your thoughts, ideas and writing out into the world?" Brown defines shame as the "intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging". Shame kicked my ass. I thought of deleting the blog. I felt ashamed of who I am, how I think, how I feel, how I live. I came face to face with my own darkest self. Who am I to occupy space? Who am I...

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